Ask a room full of couples “how are your sex lives?”.
Mature aged couples, and even younger couples, can be weighed down by various life stressors - work stress, mortgages, growing children, aging parents, and perhaps the onslaught of menopause. Asking this question you will find that many couples have moved on from exciting sex lives to more rountined, or perhaps even non-existent, sex lives.
Their sex lives are likely to have been submerged by these stresses then add to this equation sheer exhaustion and unintentially their sexual energy gets left in the background. Sexual energy is a vibrant and essential life force that can intensify our overall lust for life and is an integral part of who we are.
In the West, we seem to accept that sex is intensely exciting in the initial glow of a new relationship but could dwindle with time. The good news that it does not have to be that way! There is a way to rekindle your sexuality and bring back sensuality and warmth back to your relationship. It is called Tantra.
Tantra is a philosophy to learn, engage in and become skilled at that offers a natural way to achieve very blissful and exotic experiences for couples and singles. There is often a misconception about Tantric Sex that it is sex that can go on for many hours - this is very wrong.
Tantric Sex offers a completely different approach. Firstly, it is not confined to the genitals and orgasms. It teaches and offers an experience throughout the whole body by learning some basic principles and body processes. By connecting with the breath, you can powerfully enhance your spiritual, creative and emotional life. We all have life empowering and cleansing energy in our bodies that Tantra helps us connect to which enables us to use it for our spiritual and emotional lives.
Rather than sex being only a physical experience, it becomes a way of opening your heart and mind to the purest form of love and genuine connection. It can inspire you to reach great levels of pleasure and passion that may have not been believed possible.
The idea of Tantric Sex had intrigued me for many years so much so that I embarked on a Tantric journey myself. At times, for me, this was a solo journey and at times with a partner. I have now emerged myself in this philosophy and it has become a welcome aspect of my life. I can personally speak of the benefits that it brings - not just on a sexual level but also the ability to harness my sexual energy and to help with my overall well being. I have become the driver of my passion for life and this in turn greatly encourages me to chase and achieve my creative pursuits.
I am passionate about teaching Tantra to the wider community. Starting in Noosa, next month and early into the New Year 2022, I will be facilitating Tantra courses as well as offering it online in my soon to be released course on Sexual Well Being.
